Lady Cane ^!^

Posted by: yeyo da poet  :  Category: Poetry, sexuality

They call her Lady Cane
but that’s not her government name
That’s her calling card in the streets…
on the corner…
on the pole…
She’s been viewed as just a wet hole
for longer than she cares to remember
But she recollects that bitter cold night
in December
When he told her,
“If you love me, you will do whatever
it takes to get me that money.”
So, at 16 years old,
she dressed up in the cloak of WOMAN
She walked over miles of flesh
in 6 inch stilettos
The only bank account her money
ever saw was in her bra
In the beginning, she kept count
But eventually, all the John’s & Jill’s
faces looked the same
To her, they were just walking
erections & invading probes
Just orgasms wearing clothes

Now, it’s ten years after the fact
& most of it was spent on her back
Or on her knees but she wasn’t
down there for prayin’
She was on bending knees because
they were payin’
But, all the while, she was payin’ too
Mother of three kids &
her STD count is up to two
Although she has avoided permanent
illnesses, it is still rough
She usually tries to use protection
but some John’s just take it…
despite her objections

The pretty, straight A student of ten
years ago is no more
These days, she even refers to herself
as a whore
And no one knows she is a singer
& a song writer
With a sultry voice that could make her
much more money than her open legs
She only sings for her children
& herself
In those moments, she is Kasha Love
A blues singer whose limbs flow over
the keys of a piano effortlessly
Until the music stops
Leaving her in the grips of pain
Then, once more, she is just Lady Cane

~YeYo aka RAW SUGA’~

Cocaine ^!^

Posted by: yeyo da poet  :  Category: Poetry, sexuality

I felt…inspired lol I had fun with this one. I hope you enjoy reading it as much as I enjoyed writing it. RESPECT & LOVE
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He called me cocaine
Said I was addictive
And, these days, he can’t
let go of the stimulating memory
of us
So, he keeps closing his eyes
Reminiscing
Putting injections of me into
his cerebral cortex
My G-girl swag flows through
his veins
Allowing me to invade his
center
Sending him on a high &
he doesn’t want to come down
That’s why…
HE
CALLED
ME
COCAINE

~YeYo aka RAW SUGA’~

Garden Tool ^!^

Posted by: yeyo da poet  :  Category: Poetry, sexuality

I have no excuses. It was what I felt…what I thought…so I just had to write it. RESPECT & LOVE
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There are so many things I
could say when it comes to you
About you…
But why?
Go ahead
Don’t let me stop you
You continue to let your vagina
be the resting place &
the garden for him to plant his
lies & sow his insecurities
Awesome threesome:
The farmer
The garden
And the garden tool
His presence will choke the life
out of your garden soon
Then all there will be are weeds
grown from seeds of hate

~YeYo aka RAW SUGA’~

Memoir of a Creature ^!^

Posted by: yeyo da poet  :  Category: Poetry, sexuality

Older piece from my files marked: EXPRESSION
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Substitutes for the thing I long for
but I can’t have: LOVE
For who could love a wretch
like me who haphazardly spreads
her legs
Searching
Wanting to feel in the numb places
and numb the places that feel too much
A lonely existence seems to be my
permanent resident
No one lingers long enough in the wet
spots to see beneath the pain…
the stain being too much to bare
So no one cares
And I’ve learned not to
I just smile
All the while hating…
Hating parts of me and the monster
that created me

YeYo aka RAW SUGA’

Promiscuous ^!^

Posted by: yeyo da poet  :  Category: Poetry, sexuality

Sad to say, this is true for so many…
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He’s busy tonight
I know that means he’s got
another tight place to fill
So I’m left searching my
mental Rolodex
Not really wanting sex
Just wanting to feel… something
Just wanting some form of
attention
No, it was never my intention
to be this way
But life taught me it doesn’t
always work out how you
planned
It doesn’t matter anymore,
I think to myself as my breast
touch the carpeted floor
Greg? Marcus? Whats-his-name?
is behind me
Pumping & stroking to some
unknown rhythm
Eyes rolling in the dark
It hurts
But, at least, I can feel…
something
At least I’m not alone…
Right?
Two nights later
Shawn
I’m happy because he said
he isn’t going home this time
Which means I don’t have to
face a lonely bed
An hour of sex
Not even wet…
So it hurts
Its okay though because I can
feel…something
We slept
In the middle of the night, he left
He went back to her
Next day
Tonya calls & says she’s on her
way
Says she wants me to be her
evening meal
Its funny
All I heard was “wants me”
Wants?
Me?
I say yes
Heart pounding in my chest
Craziness as I want her flesh…
on mine
They told me same sex was a
sin
Quite ironically, she treats me
better than the men
She doesn’t hurt me
Its slow
Passionate
Sensual
There it is again
I can feel…something
But they all leave
And, once again, I’m numb
I can no longer run…
from the memories

YeYo aka RAW SUGA’

Realness ^!^

Posted by: yeyo da poet  :  Category: Poetry, sexuality

Haven’t you listened to a
word I said?
Or were you too focused on
the cat with two legs?
Haven’t you seen my heart anywhere?
Or are you too concerned
with the color of my underwear?
Well let me solve that for you by saying:
You can’t have my body before
you have my mind
And I’m not wearing any underwear
at this time
Now, can we please just talk about
something REAL?

YeYo aka RAW SUGA’

I Am

Posted by: Tichaona  :  Category: Literature, Poetry, poets, sexuality, writing

I am the earth vibrating beneath the feet of toyi-toyi dancers
~absorb my reverberations~
I am the sky transforming tears into rain
~put away your umbrellas~

I am the fire that heats your blood
~call your doctor and I’ll do the same to him or her
I am water, flowing and ebbing endlessly
~damning me is useless~

I am the elements that make up humanity
~ashes and dust contain particles of me~
I am time constantly in existence
~clocks are just abstractions of me~
I am nature, the fullness of its fury and the calm in the eye of its storm.

I am female, the she, the womb that closes when I decide.
I am nasty and pure; virginal and whorish.
I am the one who runs from your fist; the one who burns your bed
as well as the one lone juror who sets me free.

I am the one who speaks with her vagina as well as her mouth.
I am the scraped out as well as the one doing the scraping.
I am not operation rescue or holier than thou.

I am earth: plant something in me.
I am sky: stop dropping bombs from me.
I am fire: next time, next time.
I am water: now flow with me.

Sensual Rambling ^!^

Posted by: yeyo da poet  :  Category: Poetry, sexuality

So…uh…yea. My mind was in a special place ;)
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My mind is being riddled with things…
Whispering things
Raspy
Givin’ me romantic thoughts sprinkled
with GAME on ‘em…
Just enough to make me hang
on ‘em
Just enough to make me grind
on ‘em
Just enough to make me…
Mmmmmmmmm
I stand up, wiping the residue from
around my lips
And search for some sense of things
in the dark

YeYo aka RAW SUGA’

SOME VERSION OF WOMAN (PART II) ^!^

Posted by: yeyo da poet  :  Category: Poetry, sexuality

Its me again…still purging. Alright
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Yea…
There have been people in my
life…
People that have thought they
knew me
People that said I was cold
Me?
Cold?
I wondered how this fit into
my personality description when
I was always fighting not to feel
so much?
Tryin’ not to drown in a raging sea
of pain
Attemptin’ not to remember a touch,
a smell
Some don’t know…
Don’t understand that when certain
things happen to you,
you have to quickly learn how
to seperate yourself…
Keep a small piece of YOU
locked away…
Because if not, you may lose
everything
Me?
Cold?
No, I could neva’ be
I’m just some version of Woman
Introduced to Woman-hood before
I could fully embrace being a child
Sometimes its hard to remember my
life before that…
Before I became some version
of Woman
I just remember that my virginity
was something I didn’t have the
luxury of GIVIN away
It was stolen & intertwined in a
memory I can’t seem to forget…
I fought…yea, I screamed until I wrapped
my mind around th fact that no
one was comin’
Some details are hazy but I know for
a long time, I couldn’t stand to
hear anyone say I was pretty…
See, when I stopped fightin’,
he slowly slid his hand across the
side of my face & said: “you are
just so pretty”…
Gazing at me like I was some version
of Woman
Taught my lil ol’ mind things I had
no business knowing at
11 years young…
Had me connecting “sex” with “pain”
in my mind
Using my sensuality as a weapon
long before I learned to use my mind
So before you judge me &
my past…
Before you say I’m just cold…
Before you think its ok to play with
my heart…
Know, I was some version of Woman
long before I met you…
Long before my body or my mind
developed…
Long before you thought that all I
was was hips connected to thighs…
Long before you came around,
I had the heart of some version of
Woman
And that makes me stronger &
more powerful than your feeble
mind could EVA know…

YeYo aka RAW SUGA’

No Wedding, No Womb: Putting a Ring On It Isn’t the Solution

Posted by: Admin  :  Category: motherhood, sexuality

I don’t think Aomuse’s position and mine are that far apart although I don’t support the ‘concept of “No Wedding, No Womb” (NWNW) on the basis of the principle that it advocates’. I’m not against couples raising children together. Neither am I against single women raising children ‘by themselves’- although I don’t know one single mother who is doing it “by herself’’ given the extended family structures prevalent in the black community. I am, however, against the notion that children shouldn’t be conceived unless certain qualifications are met. I am against using the statistic of 72% of black children being born out of wedlock to frighten people into getting organized against a woman’s right to have a child whether married or not. Therefore, my response to the question in his blog title: No Wedding, No Womb: Too Simplistic for its own Good? is a resounding yes.

The NWNW website’s FAQ’s states the qualification for “a couple” bringing a child into the world as being “emotionally, physically and financially able to care for them”. Where is it written that “a couple” has to be married in order to be emotionally, physically and financially able to care for their children? In the bible? As he stated, he and his child’s mother are not married and are not a couple but they are definitely committed to do the work required to “fashion a conscious and committed young African daughter”.

In a perfect Cosby world, that would be the norm. Parents wouldn’t have to worry about paying for their children’s after school program, for example, because well, mom’s a lawyer and dad’s a doctor. However the Cosby ideal of parenting isn’t the norm. It’s TV.

That is in essence my problem with NWNW. It takes a complex problem and boils it down to the simple arithmetic that marriage = being “emotionally, physically and financially able to care” for children. As the founder of the “movement” herself said:

I would say again, like the professor, that there are a host of reasons why it’s happening. And that’s the reason why I got people together from various backgrounds – conservative, liberal, Republican, Democrat, Christian, Muslim, Jewish – together because I cannot as one person go through all of the reasons why we’re here.

But I will say I don’t care why we’re here. I don’t care how we got here. All I care is that we need to do something.

I don’t understand how  a problem can be solved without looking at the factors that created the problem. Actually, I do understand. Not caring about “how we got here” allows NWNW to zero in on women as breeders as the essence of the problem instead of a symptom of a bigger problem – the lack of a supportive culture that allows a woman who gives birth to a child without the “benefit” marriage to not feel as if she has to go out and buy a wedding ring, put it on her finger and pretend she is now sanctioned to have a child.